What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 04:00
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Why does Filipino culture dictate that parents should be treated as gods?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
What do you love to do at night when you’re alone?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Why do people always talk about Ohio as it's a dangerous city?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How are you spending your best time?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Was Daenerys' downfall inevitable after she left Meereen in Game of Thrones?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
If Trump were to lose in 2024, would that be the end of his grip on the Republican Party?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
How old are you? Male or Female?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
39~ What are your love languages?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
*** Random Questions ***
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
52~ What are your hobbies?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
What is your favorite position? Why?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Nothing too Serious
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Any that are a turn off?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Family Relation Age Play
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
*** Questions About Me ***
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Would you read them together?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Please share Did you stop?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?